Letting Go..

Love and respect yourself enough to let them go..

Holding on..

 

Don't hold on because you think there will be no one else, there will always be someone else. You've got to believe you're worth more than being repeatedly hurt by someone who doesn't really care, believe that someone will see what you are really worth and treat you the way you should be treated.

Be Yourself

All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was.  I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory.  I was naïve.  I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer.  It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with:  that I am nobody but myself.

Ralph Ellison